Life changing experience

I came to Danish because I wanted to do something for me. After the birth of my son, a lot had changed in me as a person, I thought I was strong, determined, had enough independence. I assumed I had control of my life, my rights, my home. A fifteen year age gap between my daughters & son I never would have assumed the dynamics in my home would be flipped upside down, and in one year my life was at breaking point. I had experienced another pregnancy alone, a traumatic near death birth with me in survival mode right in front of my elderly mother who tried to support me postpartum, while my husband at his most triggered state in 20 years. I experienced postnatal the worst narcissistic abuse of all three children at the age of 43. Twenty years of marriage…I bunkered down, had contemplations of life, my expectations. My gut instinct basically predicted to be on guard. I thought I had seen the patterns. I thought I had support. And beyond the fact everyone including my coworkers had witnessed without me saying anything, the relentless stages of psychological abuse, no one would wish upon anyone, began. After trying to find a peaceful way to escape, it was a day in my life I would have never expected to come. I found myself discussing with the police events that took place outside my home trying to prove my innocence. Taken into custody by the police, watching my husband enjoy the scenario that took place. Telling my children everything would be okay, I won’t be long, to the sick feeling in my stomach. While in police custody,

being locked in a jail cell, mug shot, fingerprinted and all

along the way innocent. Never again! I told myself over and over while I shut down physically then mentally. I gave up. Eventually I gained strength with the Support of my mother’s words “I would never give up? I would have determination.” I allowed my husband I thought was someone who I could trust to do this to me?when I arrived home he said things will settle down we will go back to normal… my stomach felt sick…Normal? No empathy no compassion my emotions said I had to prove myself I had flash backs of walking home, arriving having to take my son in my arms, see my daughters, get the strength to deal with the smirk on my husbands face-I froze. Replaying being taken away from my baby, never have I ever left his side. I told myself- I will do something! I will never let this happen again! I reached out to local support agencies. They gave me a safe plan. They gave me hope, only to be let down, told one thing & set down to be let down, told we do not help people

Like you… “who?…” Why would any woman reach out for support for her children? that takes courage! I thought this is wrong I sent emails I reached out to agencies that sent me in a loop. I found Danis… I decided I can invest in me! This was the best choice in twenty years I had ever made! I had never spent a cent on myself as I always had to work for every cent to pay for my own needs & my children’s needs. Danish’s emails, the personalised strategy, exercises, gave me techniques to plan, build confidence, calm my body alongside my mind. I have a lifetime access replay, to what I need when I say lifetime, my life time. I can heal at my pace… the thing with life is it throws you curve balls. Financial is I believe is what keeps me stuck…I sold my truck, the money went fast. I went through court, applied for a divorce. I got a letter from the police wavering my accusations! Success! all with the support of Danish! my self-made decision to invest in me I’m not out yet but my plan is underway. This is a long story but, I want who ever is reading this do it for you! even if you don’t get the results you think your supposed too keep trying! don’t give up, perseverance is the key! with the benefits of these masterclasses what I invested in for myself prior to this with Danish I can say I have something for me…. A tool a safe place a guide that is designed to support assist & help me when needed at anytime I feel I have lost my way… Your email with the words “I am proud of you” touched my heart in ways I felt before I had experienced years of suffering.. I felt my heart was full, strong enough to take my life back. Right now it has changed me. Changed my perspective that I can & will overcome any obstacle! Give me & my children a better world, a world where we live in peace. Feel stable, heal & thrive! Thank you from the bottom of my heart Danish! Your whole design, & thought process has left no stone unturned when it comes to healing from narcissistic abuse. It will benefit anyone who understands this is your life’s work to keep the soft innocence we all deserve to preserve one’s self, identity & know we have the right to choose what path we walk. Even if we have to climb with the weight of the world on our backs the final destination will be worth everything you’re worked hard for. Do it for you! Do it for life, because we can be the change! we can break the chains of abuse! 🦅🐦