Vanishing will save your life

Hi, good morning. I am Shelley Carnes, and I am an advocate for those of us who have experienced narcissistic discard. I want to thank Danish for his brilliant offering this morning in a Zoom session regarding exiting this type of relationship. I very quickly would like to highlight a couple of things from my own experience. Number one, you were hunted and chosen because you see good in others and believe in love. That's it. And you elevate their circumstance somehow. Number two, they are planning your demise during your initial meeting. Wrap your head around that. It's the truth. Number three, they weaponize anything or anyone dear to you. They weaponize your love. They weaponize intimate sexual relations with you. They weaponize your pets. They weaponize the law. They weaponize religious, spiritual, and ethical belief systems that you have. Number four, the final discard by a cluster B results in only four outcomes. Only four outcomes, and these are what they are. Incarceration, because you've been DARVO'd, and you can never call the police for help now. It's one of their favorites. 5150, because you're acting out of fear all the time. Death, whether they actually eliminate you, or during your fleeing period, you're really vulnerable. And really bad things happen. That was my experience. And it's so isolating at the very beginning, if you don't have an exit plan with a group to help catch you once you leave. It is so isolating that taking one's life crosses the mind of a victim often. The number one thing that you want to do is the fourth result, the fourth outcome, which is vanishing. Thank you, Danish, for all of your brilliance this morning. You are not meant to survive the final discard, and they unleash the final discard once they believe they have secured your replacement. They oftentimes hide communications by cataloging their future victim in their phones as either their boss or their best friend, whoever they're getting a lot of phone calls from anyway. They just add them into that name. So just to let you know, vanishing prior to the final discard will save your life. They stalk relentlessly for years. So vanishing is a way to become your own hero in your own story. You become the hero of your story, and you can provide a future beyond your wildest dreams if you're able to fully execute a successful vanishing. I wish everyone well. Danish, you have been instrumental in my walk through this darkness with this evil entity that tried to murder me. And I appreciate you so much. Shelley Carnes, signing off.